Waitress slammed for insulting tweet after George W Bush and Laura gave her $40 and posed for a photo
'Bush did 9/11 but he did me a solid and left me a hella tip':
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- Leisa Smith tweeted the comment after she served George W Bush and wife Laura
- Bush left Smith a generous $40 on his $21.47 bill
- But tweeted a pic of her and the Bushes with the words: 'Bush did 911 but he did me a solid and left me a hella tip #'
- She has since been called out for her 'insensitive' and 'stupid comments'
Were you surprised by the reactions to the unwise communications?
First off, I don't think she should have posted the tweet at all, and definitely not the "Bush did 911" part.
First off, I don't think she should have posted the tweet at all, and definitely not the "Bush did 911" part.
In a way I am surprised by the reaction. I don't think the comment deserves the internet attention or time of day most people paid to it in the first place.
Sometimes our sense of humor gets us into trouble, and a lot of it. No doubt Leisa thought this was funny when she posted it and no doubt she thought that if someone really thought through her comment, it would be self evidently ridiculous. I wonder if the way we read has changed, especially in social media formats. Rather than reading in context and then processing and thinking before replying, maybe people just pick up key words and respond in a "knee jerk" fashion. Maybe the reaction serves to illustrate the point that when you are passionate about a topic, electronic media is not the place to express yourself.
I think there is a perception that when electronic communications are viewed, that there has been 2 things involved in their production: 1) initial consideration and thought in the making of the product, 2) some form of electronic editing, if only spelling and grammar checking. Also, electronic mistake are permanent. People forgive, but the internet does not. People forget, but the internet does not. So while the harshness may not be fair, the reality is that electronic mistakes can be almost impossible to fix.
There is also another factor I think we fail to consider. The media are collectively called SOCIAL media. The apps are intended to quickly PASS ON info, to SHARE thoughts, and not necessarily for private 1 to 1 conversation. I think quite often instead of an audience of 1 as the sender intends, he or she gets an audience that is the size of the world. It is usually possible to predict the reaction of an acquaintance or good friend, but it is impossible to predict the reaction of all the people in the world and if just ONE is offended . . .
